My mom , responsible for my car, let my sister use and break it , and tried to hide it from me. When I told her my car is fucked she said “I’m so sorry to hear that” and when I asked her about what happen, she blamed my sister and said she don’t know anything about it…(even tho it was her entire responsibility to keep my car safe, my sister not her told or asked me about using my car)

So now I give her the silent treatment, and my sister too- who actually took responsibility but claims she only owes me $500… damages are $2900… and also claims she is responsible, not mom… and she will pay me back when she gets a job…(she’s a college student in another state).. when I asked her why not sell her $800 laptop, $400 head phones… she said it’s off limits … as if my car was not off limits LOL

My cousin who told everyone to fuck off at Christmas bc we asked her for help to clean up the kitchen before everyone left - got mad and crashed out on me when I would not stop what I was doing to drop off jumper cables to her for a car that’s not even hers…

I told her no I could not atm cause I’m on my way to gym and I said I’m sorry and that I would like to help

• she started going off saying the karmic laws of life and that I should essentially drop whatever in doing to help in an emergency

• the issue is I don’t see this as an emergency and even if I did she was name calling me cussing and talking shit before I even responded to her request to come after the gym which I would have even tho I have no car n would have to take 1hr on the cta at 10pm at night to do so… I would have. But now that she being nasty to me I decided fuck no. She can get her jump cables from auto one her car still works this is some brat shit.

I don’t plan on speaking to her till she can apologize lol and admit she was wrong for crashing out on me at the moment for simply saying no not right this second.

Graduation is coming up and idk if I’m being a bitch or standing up for myself . I want them to be there but if this is who they are and how they treat me why should I allow that shit.

Thoughts ?