The story is the following:

I and a girl one grade below me started dating about two weeks ago. One thing leads to another and we have sex a couple times. One time we accidentally use the wrong condom size and at the end it slips off of my genital. Some spills out and apparently even into her. She tells me that her friend will get a plan b for her tomorrow so I’m not worried at first.

This happened on a Thursday. On Monday, she texts me that she did not get the plan b because they wouldn’t sell it to her. I wondered why she didn’t try to buy it somewhere else but it was already pretty late. She also told me that if she was pregnant she wouldn’t abort the child. I told this to my roommate. She looks up a drug store that was still open and we immediately went and got the pill and then drove over to her. She took the plan b and then tells me how on Friday she couldn’t buy it. Saturday she forgot to buy it and Sunday the stores were closed.

I felt like she didn’t really try to prevent it and she already told me that she was pregnant once but lost the child and actually wanted to have it back then.

Either way this felt like either she didn’t really take it seriously or that she actually hoped to get pregnant. All of this was way too risky for me since we both are pretty young. She’s almost 19 and I’m 21. I just learned how to stand on my own two feet in life. I don’t have great support from my family and I barely get by. She still lives with her dad.

So I decided to break things off. Now she is angry at me because I would’ve left her alone with the child and I tried everything to prevent it instead of supporting her. I get that point and that is exactly why I left her. I cannot be responsible for a child. And I won’t take the risk of this happening. Even if I liked her.

I try to explain everything as good as I can and she responds with getting drunk and sending me her negative pregnancy test withe caption “I’m not pregnant but you’re still a pussy” (ngl I kinda thought it was funny). I tell her she’s right and that she has every reason to be mad at me. She then tells me that she would’ve liked to “break my nose” at school. I respond calmly and tell her that I know she’s drunk but that it’s still not okay to threaten me with violence.

I get that she is hurt by all this and I try to be as understanding as possible. I tell her it’s all my fault and I’m the irresponsible one even if I don’t think I’m the only one who acted irresponsible.

So AITAH for leaving her after all of this?