*5 years after sleeping wrong she cannot work enough to support herself and makes about $200 a week which she spends on food. She is a professional and can work remotely. I am tearing my hair out and have become extremely emotional about her getting some form of income comensurate with the life we have/had. I have said some things she finds hurtful, but I stand by what I said. You are acting like a loser if you have made little to no progress on healing, working, claiming disability(denied) or contributing to your own well being. We fight constanly, she claims I am being emotionally abusive and maybe I am. I know you will say we should end it, but she quite literally has nothing. I feel that if I am being abusive in my insistance the she has been financially abusive. If she immediately starts working when she leaves, then I would like some restitution, because it is clear to me that she is only doing this because she can, which would mean she is baiting me into being what she calls an abuser, for screaming "deal with your health issues, get to work and get money". I began predicting that the only way she would return to work was if I left her. I told her to go stand at an intersection with a sign. I have said that if my legs were gone I would not have been granted this grace at my parents house. I never even asked for all the money I have spent, simply that she pay what she agreed to and try to save something for a better life going forward.

You can roast me. I thought this was the person I was going to spend the rest of my life with, but I feel as though she has chosen to just quit life. I could continue to support her, but I refuse to. I worked very hard to get where I am and I need to see some effort on her part. She doesn't seem willing