Our 9 year old has lots of challenges, related to ADHD, and likely PDA. Since the time change, she has been struggling in the mornings, often laying in bed for 20 mins, before she gets out. I have asked my partner if he could help me to feel supported, by getting up and earlier with me, and waking our daughter up earlier. This will give her more time to process, but also do her self-care. (We were rushing this morning, and he was going to brush her hair while she ate. She’s almost 10. I feel like she needs to at least start the brushing on her own, and I can help with tangles. He gave me a hard time about this. AITAH?