Hello using a throw away account bc why not.

I 25m have been with my gf (24f) for about 6 years now. We recently moved in together around a year or so ago and honestly everything has been very great. I love her dearly and honestly can’t wait to spend the rest of my life with her.

Over the last I would say 8 or 9 months though she has been struggling to be intimate with me. Either just kissing or having sex. We used to be very sexual with each other and I felt like we made each other feel really great. All that changed pretty suddenly though. I chalked to up to decreased sex drive due to medication but as time went on it seemed like there was more to it then just that.

We talk about it pretty frequently and she has told me she doesn’t like the way that she looks and has a lot going on mentally. Now I would like to say that she is the most beautiful woman I have seen. I constantly give her compliments and try to help her but to no avail. I also helped her get a therapist as well.

It’s been about 8 - 9 months since we have done anything sexual and I’m starting to feel like an asshole for just being frustrated. I have a high sex drive and it’s honestly been killing me to not be able to be close to women I love. I don’t take it out on her and I try to help her but in the back of my head I’m just pissed off and upset.

Edit 1 - We are both homebody’s and spend nearly every second together so to some people saying it’s just me she’s not having sex with isn’t true.

Second I do believe she’s attracted to me and truly wants to be more intimate with me but just can’t due to things going on mentally and I understand fully. (I’m diagnosed OCD and Anxiety)