Hello!! I genuinely need help and want to know if I was in the wrong for this.

Me (F) and my friend (also F) have gotten into it over her slow response times. The first time it happened she explained to me that she works a lot and is very tired. I completely understand that, work tires out a person. But on days when she’s not working and is at home the response times are still the same. One response every four to six hours. I try not to let it affect me as much because she does have a lot of stuff on her plate but it’s getting to a point where I can no longer deal with it.

I also have to innate every conversation between us, when others don’t have too. It’s getting exhausting and I genuinely want to know if I am wrong for feeling this way. Please give advice, don’t hold back on criticism.