For context I F(12) Bf M (14) have been dating for two months and his friend F were friends longer than we have been dating and she has been bullying and picking with me and she has tried to fight me before for no reason when I had finally had enough and went to the locker room ready to fight she didn't want to fight she just sat there looking at me so cool we get cool we started to hang out again one day in march I had jus got done arguing with my cousin at school for context my cousin has been bullying and messing with me since 5 th grade and years later she is still messing with me and I had fought her before it was my first fight ever I didn't know what I was doing but so the bf friend had hit him and my cousin was calling my name and telling me over and over that she hit him I was ignoring her for a long time then I turned to her and said okay she got mad and mumbled something under her breath then she said shut up could I have handled that better yes I could did I no so I turned to her and said make me we get to arguing she kept saying shut up so I kept saying make me then she said you remember what happened last time referring back to elementary school and I said you told me to shut up so make me that's when I dropped my racket and started walking towards her I guess my cousin (14)M was watching and pulled me away then she walked away so he takes me over there by the stage we sit on the stage he is talking to me trying to calm me down then my bf friend she comes over there trying to be messy and was like cousins name said come to the locker room I said calmly I was mad but I said calmly I don't care and to get out my face I said it over and over again she kept saying sum to me so I got fed up and yelled at her to get the fuck outta my face and to leave me alone she got mad and said your not talking to me I said yes I am she said what you wanna do then so I hop off the stage and was finna fight her but my friend pulled her my cousin pulled me away so after school I'm walking with my bf to his mom car cause after school I always was my bf to his moms car then a group of girls come outside tryna fight me so I keep walking cause I jus got out of 180 for fighting a girl that was bullying me since the summer of 2024 so I couldn't go back he leaves we start texting and then I got upset and asked him if he had to choose me or his friend who is he choosing he said both I said but if you had to choose wo are you choosing he said both okay that's not a bad answer then he said ive known her longer and your my gf I felt a type way because he said ive known her way longer even before we started talking and dating and that I'm just his gf I felt like Im just the boring ole girlfriend and well she is the friend that he has known for years

So reddit AITAH for getting upset with my Bf because he gave me an answer that I didn't like?