The title sounds bad but heres the full description. I (19F) have a baby boy on the way. It's my first baby so ive been doing everything i can to make sure hes safe and healthy. For years me and my brother were inseparable but he was also a person that was selfish. Whenever he didn't get his way he'd hit me and basically force what he wanted (nothing sexual). This involved mostly video games and the couch. If i didnt get off he'd force me to get off or piss me off so I'd get off. And it only got worse as we grew up. But ever since I found out I have preeclampsia ive told him he cant stress me out. And pissing me off is stressing me out. Ive told him it could lead to hurting me or the baby if he continues stressing me out. Tonight was the worst night because he used the fact he bought me stuff when I told him to use my card to buy them. I refused to give him some of the chips I had since he thinks he has to have everything I have. After I refused he used the fact he spent all his money on me when I only had a few things and i told him to buy them with my card but he refused. It made me snap and I threw my chips and drink and stormed off. I texted his boyfriend saying if I lose my son because of my brother then my brother would be dead to me. Ive finally calmed down and feel like i might have gone too far with saying that. Aitah?