So my BF (21 M) and I (19 F) have been together for a little over a year. When i met his mother she immediately interragated me about my mental health history i am bipolar with PTSD Tourettes and anxiety. Once she heard i was bipolar her words after not even knowing me for half an hour were “so then you know you should never have kids isnt it selfish for you to be with him what if he wants kids and you cant give him that you shouldnt trap him” she has also told him that if he marries me she will disown him (im in her daughters wedding as a bridesmaid and she will be there i also make regular trips to their house he currently lives at home with his family bc of rent prices in his area i drive 4 hours and he drives 4 so we visit each others houses) she told him she wont be at OUR wedding but we are going on a cruise together bc her daughther suggested my BF take me bc ive never been. Am I the asshole for hating her for this? (This all the context i feel is necessary)