Let me start with the obligatory, yet genuine: My spouse is a wonderful mother to our 1 y/o and the love of my life.

She chooses to work part time as a waitress, she wanted a traditional home life and to be a SAHM. We live in a 2 bedroom apartment and it is a never ending cycle of me getting to a point where every bit of tidiness is void, that I end up doing the cleaning. I do get very frustrated but in the end, I still do most of the cleaning.

We of course, like most people want a home one day. However, I have the feeling that this situation is just going to get worse with a bigger home. Am I an ass if I voice frustration? Anyone else have this issue? What did you do?