📝 AITAH for ignoring my friend?

By nyanaro • Score: 0 • April 8, 2025 11:23 AM


Basically me (f19) and my friend (f20) used to be pretty close friends since the start of university. Recently (around a month ago or so) she started hanging out with this other girl and as long as Im all for her and me finding other friends- she started rather ignoring me for the sake of her new friend. I tried to talk it out with her as soon as I noticed, but although she apologized she didnt really change her behaviour towards me. I just decided to give the energy back, cause like- if someone doesnt care for me, why would I care for them? Ive been more distant towards her recently and although we do still talk sometimes, its obviously not as much as it was. I kinda feel guilty, cause I feel like if I wouldnt distance myself, we probably still wouldve been close- although, Im afraid it wouldnt really make sense since it wouldve been rather one-sided. I did quite heavily ignore her (unintentionally though) today and tbh I kind of felt bad (for ex.) leaving her behind and walking to another classroom, although she did the same many times with that other girl. It is just a small thing, but I tend to take it to myself.
So- AITAH? Is it something you'd do too if you felt ignored? Or is it just being a bitch?

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