📝 AITAH for leaving house party because of men.

By DireNerxs • Score: 406 • April 20, 2025 4:24 PM


I am 22f and we were invited to house party. Although it started out with equal amount of men and women. But by end of it, only me and my friend were left. There were still double digit guys there. It is small town ( population around 5000 ) and party was in farmhouse away from the town. Note we both are from city and we dress little liberal compared to other girls. So some people take it as an excuse to cross limits.

I was drunk but in senses and my friend has no sense left. She was dancing with every random guy and i forced her to go out. Guys were little touchy imo. While guys asked us not to leave and enjoy the party, I was feeling uncomfortable at late night

I had booked taxi that day and took her back home. The drama started when the host asked me, why did I leave, when everyone was enjoying. The guy is/ was good friend. So I told him. I wasn't feeling comfortable in party with so many drunk guys. Most of them who i didn't even know.

So he leaked those chats and I am getting painted as vamp, who are accusing town guys of potential predators. And ruining the vibe. Even girls are accusing me and asking me to chill

My friend said nothing would have happened and I over reacted. I don't think I did. But the way people are accusing me, wonder I over reacted? I feel I will never help people again, if my intentions were good. But I didn't mean to tag those guys as potential r*****s.

Note. I also need to add. These guys are rich guys with political backgrounds. So i didn't want any mess. Because they have huge backing

Also we have been labelled lose women by small town folks because we wear biknis and all. Which is pathetic mentality

Also the host studied in same college. We befriended him back then as teens. He had rich background and huge political connections. He invited us to his farmhouse party earlier too. But it was never like this before. Not many men in previous parties. And used to have our other college mates.

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