📝 AITAH for leaving my ex when he kept commenting on my body

By Pale-Chest8979 • Score: 98 • April 25, 2025 7:58 PM


So i, left my boyfriend of a year because he kept commenting on my body. For some background information, We met over instagram. He commented on my comment, saying did i like a game and we went off from there, very weird i know. We ended up getting very close over the few months we talked, until eventually he asked me out, and i, happily said yes.

Around 5 months into the relationship, i went to check his following, just for fun. I see 3 skinny asian OF models. And i, not skinny or asian, got a little upset. I asked him why was he following them, calmy. He got defensive saying he must have accidentally followed them. I didnt believe him, you cant accidentally follow 3 of models and like multiple of their posts. Soon enough he unfollowed them. (now little time skip, he set one of those of models as his pfp so i just KNOW it wasnt an accident.)

Now we start to send because we are comfortable. I send him a full body picture, nude. I dont remember the exact words he said, but it was something along the lines of "Did you really need to send me your love handles". I obviously go upset, because ive been struggling with body images for a while. This only being one of the insults. He gradually started to send and like more of models, insta baddies, and ofcourse, sophie rain. By no manner am i trying to bash on any of these people, get your bag, chase it.

I start to tell him how it hurts me, because i thought telling your significant other was.. normal? Anyways - He keeps talking about how im "chubby" and my "love handles" and or hip dips. He said he liked it, but i kept trying to say how it made me sad,upset, and angry. Now im 4'11, so it doesnt take much for me to get chubby, im like 115? He says that i made HIM insecure, and that since i way less i was pushing my body images to him.. If i was 115 and lets say 6'3, i would be very malnourished.

Now 3 weeks before our 1 year, i break up with him. He texts me saying i was overdramatic and i was reading to much into it, AITAH?

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