First of all Im sorry if this seems messy compared to other post on here, and Im sorry for any grammar errors it might end up having.

Okay so my now boyfriend (17M) and me (14 ALMOST 15F)have had issues with jokes in the past, because I sometimes take them too personally. I have told him recently though, and he has even noticed that I am improving a lot when it comes to “harsh” jokes and Im able to see it as a joke and not an insult. However, about 2 hours ago he has asked me to get on his game (Minecraft), and responded yes because I don’t mind that he isn’t paying attention to me all the time.

All is going fine, and we were just on the phone, doing our own thing. A couple minutes later I hear him yelling at his game, after he has jokingly told me to stop telling my sisters cat he was fay and obese (as a joke, this cat is 19lbs so he is HEAVY). Since I had assumed we were okay with jokes especially considering rude jokes he has made to me in the past when I lost games. One example really quick of the top of my head would be when I was explaining an insulting comment my sister made about my “big” forehead which he responded with “they could have an entire movie set up on either of our heads babe”. I got visibly annoyed by this and went silent, because I was openly expressing in that moment that I was very insecure about it and wanted comfort, but instead I was out right insulted.

ANYWAY, I’m sorry I was ranting a little, I started singing karma by Jojo Siwa, when I heard him yelling at his game. Even though, earlier he had advised me not to make a joke when he lost his hardcore world in Minecraft, as he would be in rage. If I’m being completely honest here, I didn’t forget he told me not too, but I did forget that he was in hardcore and would lose the world completely (also in all fairness I didn’t know why he was mad at the game). It has been about half an hour since this happened and he is still pissed at me, after about 5 minutes of silence when he yelled at me for singing karma, he asked me why I would do that.

Me: I didn’t think it would be a big deal, I was just singing Im really sorry it became a problem

Him: You know what you did, don’t act fucking dumb

Me: I was singing it as a joke, because we were playing fighting about me calling Berry (my cat) fat, and then I heard you get mad at the game so I sung it as a joke.

Him: I wouldn’t be this mad, but I had asked you not to make a joke earlier when you said something about it, because I would already be enraged.

Then he was saying stuff like he was going to leave the call for a bit, and that he loved me and would call me back later. I said I love you too, and bye and then he hung up right away. Honestly don’t really know what to do, and I really didn’t think I was going too far on this joke, an even explained how I forgot it was a hardcore world, and I didn’t know he lost the game completely as I don’t play Minecraft ever. I really want to know if I over stepped, or if he is being a hypocrite about this considering he makes offensive jokes towards me all the time and even if Im annoyed, I sit there and be quiet? Please tell me what I should do!