📝 AITAH for making my bf spend money on medicine for me?

By adorbss1 • Score: 12 • April 5, 2025 12:02 PM


I (23F) and my bf (27M) have been living together for 6 months and I’ve adjusted pretty well. I moved away from my friends and family to his home state and I think it’s been going good. A few arguments here and there but nothing too major.

Due to my job, working with children I have been getting sick back to back for weeks on end since I have started there.

There have been times where I go out sick to buy my own medicine but other times I just stay home and ask for my bf to buy medicine for me. This week I got sick and I haven’t been able to buy medicine because I was pushing through all week. Today I woke up feeling terrible. I was coughing all morning and I told my bf I needed medicine and he started yelling at me, he told me that he wasn’t buying me any medicine because he’s sick of me getting sick all the time and that I might as well go home. (Go back to my old state with my family) I got really upset and just started crying while coughing. He continued by saying that I had to buy my own shit. Except I have? That’s why I’m confused. The other times I’ve gone and bought myself medicine He’s mainly upset that he has to buy it for me and put it on his card. He says he works two jobs and I work a job and expects me to always pay for my own things. He never communicated his feelings to me. This is the first time I’m hearing this. I hate that he’s calling me a freeloader… but I work a full time job… he says he’s not spending 30 dollars on medicine. I don’t know what to do anymore. Every time I talk to him he just says something that pisses me off more so I don’t bother responding. How can I communicate with him how I feel?

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