My bf (22) and I (21F) have been dating for around 7 months. He recently brought to my attention that I made him comfortable talking about a future together too much, and that I kinda forced him into saying I love you. He hadn’t told me if he loved me and it was nearing six months into dating so I brought it up on a phone call one night because I’m nearing the end of my senior year in college. With the degree (hospitality management) I’m receiving I could really live anywhere in the world so I wanted to know if he felt seriously enough about me. I told him that I really care for him and asked if he felt the same way because I love him and I found it sad that he hadn’t told me that yet as it had been around 5 1/2 months and valentines had passed. We had met each others families, spent all holidays together and almost every weekend and spare amount of time together. Then he also brought up the fact that I talk to much about having kids or getting married too much and it makes him feel pressured. I guess it’s not so much him feeling pressured I’m upset about, but for the last few weeks he has had low libido and been very depressed and blaming it all on work. I feel like he lied to me and didn’t communicate effectively. I would’ve stopped mentioning marriage or kids if I knew but now I’m just angry he lied. I also don’t think me asking if he felt the same way was wrong, but he says I somewhat forced him into saying I love you. That he wanted to do it on his time, which is a valid concern but that was two months ago. I feel like he resents me after keeping that to himself for two months. He said he cares for me deeply but now I’m insecure and unsure of what to say. So am I the asshole?