📝 AITAH for not inviting a girl along?

By dangerous_girlyyy • Score: 1 • April 22, 2025 4:07 PM


So, I (15f), went to get Boba and to chat with a friend of mine, Jane (fake name). We have planned it on Saturday, but weren't sure if we could go. On Sunday I went to an ice cream shop with three other friends, Emma, Grace and Riley (fake names). This morning I hit Jane up with "Hey! What are the plans today?" and she told me, that she won't do much, so I met up with her for Boba and gossip. I posted a picture of us and our teas on my Snapchat story, and an hour after I got home, Grace messaged me "thanking" me for not inviting her along with us. The truth is that Jane and I wanted it to be just us, so I asked Grace what she meant by that. She blew up my phone, telling me "that we are AHs for not inviting her, as she got a new chopstick-set, and that she wanted to get Udon noodles and Boba, and that everyone ghosts her because she's annoying, and that Emma went rollerskating with Megan and Lily (fake names), and that no one calls her anywhere. " She never told me, that she wanted to come, and didn't even ask me, if I wanted to go with her. The truth about Grace is that she has bad anger issues, but she doesn't want to accept that she needs therapy, and the fact that if we go out together, she'll be a complete AH, won't talk to me, or if she does talk to me, it's like I'm a dog, and I met up with her two days ago. So was I really the AH for not asking her to come along?

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