SAHM mom here,living with husband and his father and our son.My day begins at 5 am with sleep deprivation because baby wakes up for night feedings and diaper changes.I haven't got any 8 h sleep without stops at all since sons birth.And still I am doing all the cooking and cleaning simultaneously.Today my husband got angry at me because I didn't invite his father to dinner.I mean I barely have time to do anything more I even eat in a hurry and sometimes I really forget to take care of myself.I can't even relax normally for an hour. Yes sometimes I go to pool once a week but husband just doesn't seem to understand that I do way much more than he does.Yes he does take care of a baby ,not the whole day but like an hour he can take care of.