By Anonymous_positivity • Score: 0 • April 21, 2025 8:47 AM
While at an event downtown with my mother and sister. A group of guys (complete strangers) first walked past me I (18F)noticed one of them look my way maybe trying to figure me out whistling at me but then the dude came back to ask for my Instagram and number for his friend which first, was a turn off itself because why couldn't he ask himself if he wanted it.
But I was preoccupied messing with my hair so I wasn't really giving much of a answer then he left to the group again and returned asking the most bold inappropriate question "would you suck his d*** and immediately I said no. That was gross and my answer was definitely a no and he went off with the group. My mom had asked me what they wanted with me since she was sitting down in the grass with my sisters and her friend and I told her about the interaction and she immediately was disturbed and upset saying it was very disrespectful for them to ask me that and wanted to go over and talk to them herself.
Sometime passed they came back over to the area we were seated at. And my mother and sister got up to confront them about it while this was happening I tried to keep calm of the situation not going over there myself and watching my baby sister. But eventually I did because I felt like as the person who's situation it originally was I should've went over there and initially I was calm and listening but eventually I got loud..REALLY loud angrily insult them aloud in front of everyone at the event and most people directed their attention to the scene and I basically went on a rant about how in real life you can't approach people like that because u don't know how people will react, people can get killed and seriously hurt over "trolling" they claimed they were trolling.
You can't talk to people any kind of way. I was very disgusted and angry at the interaction I could feel my anger in my body physically I was very hot. At the moment in my life? I'm actually not very mentally stable. I have alot of anger and aggression inside of me and I know it. I was scared of myself while yelling at them.
And my sister had to calm me down and we went on a walk around the event. Which is crazy bc I was okay immediately after the situation took place but after time my anger simmered and boiled over and I confronted them rather intensely for their disgusting behavior.
My friend tried explaining to me that "they were definitely inappropriate and disrespectful there's just something things u don't do or say especially in a public place filled with people and that was on of those things. That's common social courtesy and sense. If you had a boyfriend or a brother or any male close to you and they confronted them they'd be in for more trouble. And plus they don't know who you are to ask u something absurd like that.
You could be potentially dangerous, physically violent, possess a weapon, mentally unstable or even bottling up some intense emotions ready to come out like they did in screaming. In real life u can't approach strangers like that with bold questions and requests like that. Man or woman. You don't know people enough to know how they'll react they're ignorantly putting themselves in possible harms way. Some people are truly crazy and messed up in this world and you would never know it. "
I just wanted to post on here to vent and also let people know out there who are doing something similar to these guys as trolling is that people is extremely unpredictable and dangerous and especially strangers and you should never feel comfortable with doing or saying anything to anyone especially nowadays. The world is very messed up.
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