Apparently I should have jumped for joy in excitement when he told me that because women who get proposed to react that way. When he told me this I was like aww babe hug and then said “well you’re gonna have to talk to my dad” and he immediately got defensive and said “yeah I fucking know that. Are you kidding me?”. I apologized because I then remember he had told me that he’d had a conversation with my dad before and that everything was fine and then he starts getting upset asking me why I wasn’t acting more excited about what he said and that he feels stupid now and doesn’t even want to talk about marriage.