📝 AITAH for not leaving my apartment when my roommate has therapy?

By Lopsided-Crab6308 • Score: 1 • April 21, 2025 5:27 AM


Pretty much the title, my (F21) roommate (F20) has therapy on Thursdays at 2, and I have a class at 2. I often don’t go to class because it’s an easy gen ed and I’m a stem major so I use that time to either nap or work on bigger assignments. One time when I left my room to do something while she was in therapy in her room, she was talking pretty loud and I heard it (it was very brief, it’s not like I stuck around and listened). I mentioned it to her because I wanted to make her aware and I felt weird about it. She started asking me if I could go to my 2pm because she has therapy, but I feel like it’s kind of a rude ask since I’m almost always napping at that time, and at the very least I stay in my room. I pay just as much rent as she does and so I’m going to be at home whenever I want. It feels like she is crossing a boundary when she asks me to leave my own apartment. She says she feels like her privacy has been violated and I explained that I only heard the one time, but she won’t let it go and gets annoyed when I don’t leave during her sessions. AITAH?

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