📝 AITAH for not letting my best friends racist underage boyfriend stay at my place?

By zensoot • Score: 4 • April 15, 2025 9:47 AM


So for background me (19f) and my best friend (19f) have been friends since beginning of high school, she was my best friend used to be a very thoughtful nice person however she started dating this guy (17m) she and him have a long distance relationship which i was not too happy about but still tried to be supportive however her man was nothing but racist and rude to me because i am asian and she knows about this and i told her how his words was making me uncomfortable and she told me “he has alot on his plate right now ill talk to him later” and she never did so i distanced myself from her because of her man and she never cared about that and never dmed me until so as i said they are long distance and he is 17 however she told him to come to our city without telling his parents (he apperantly had a fight w them and doesnt wanna see them) and he said yes and he stayed at a random mans house for a night and the other night he apperantly slept on streets, which leaded into his parents getting scared thinking he is kidnapped police got involved but NOTHING happened bc his parents didnt want to press charges and she dmed me all about this and i got mad at her because she did actually commit a crime and we had a fight, after the fight i felt bad and wanted to apologise yet she didn’t want to talk or meet up which i understood and i gave her space. We didnt talked at all for 3-4 weeks at least then on a random night she dmed me asking IF HER MAN COULD SHOWER AT MY PLACE AND STAY THE NIGHT For the record i used to live in a 3 storey house with my parents and my siblings we moved to a new place 2 weeks ago and she didnt even knew because she wouldnt talk to me . And her excuse was “your house is huge he will be silent no one will notice him you have to do this for mee we cant find a place for him to stay and his parents doesnt knows they cant send us moneyy” and i told her i wont be the baby sitter for her minor BOYFRIEND and i live with my parents and even if i didnt i wouldnt want to take care of him the argument got rlly heated and stopped talking after while and 2 days after this argument i saw she removed me from all social medias and games and everything i dmed her about it and she refused to answer so i just typed “ur cutting me off because i didnt wanna look after your boyfriend ok” then i blocked her from everywhere. She apperantly told our friends about this and most of them agreed w me and some agreed w her saying i was wrong. So AITAH for this?

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