My girlfriend (17f) of almost 2 years is interested in drinking after a past history of me (17m) having strong feelings against it we have drank together in the past but I was never comfortable with her drinking without me because she does not have a tolerance whatsoever and the friends she would drink with are not friends worried about her best interest. It was new years of 2024/25 that we both got very drunk but me not quite as bad and she made quite a scene in a very public place and embarrassed us both. The night ended in nasty drunken arguments and I took an Oath that I would not encourage her to drink whatsoever. Meaning drinking with her or infront of her and told her I would also quit drinking as it felt fair due to my strong feelings against it it has only been the last few weeks if had 1-3 light beers after work by myself while I eat dinner on the phone with her ( we are 7 hours long distance) today we had a argument/ conversation about her 18th birthday (legal drinking age where we are) and how I would react with her drinking I told her I’m not interested and I’m not interested in someone who wants to drink it’s jsut simply not for me, I can understand a quiet few but don’t see the need for anything more. She than said that most people start to experiment with alcohol at our age and that I’m not letting her do that, I told her that that is how I feel and I can’t change that so if she wants to do so she can but can’t expect me to put my feelings aside. I don’t really know why I hate it so much maybe family drinking issues, maybe trust issues. I don’t do this to be a ass I do it because it’s just the way I feel and I don’t think this situation would change for another girl I think I don’t like alcohol in general. AITAH. There is a lot more I could add as this is a very complicated situation for us if you would like more info please ask