Ill preface this by explaining for the past few months my family has been going through a ton of drama and bullshit to the point where my father has been so low that the idea of self deletion has been a very real fear amongst me and my sibling. So much so that weve been constantly keeping in touch, trying to reach out and avoid our father feeling like he has no one to go to (we both live a decent amount of time away from eachother.).

Now I have a coworker/friend who has been having a rough go with life lately too, and had recently left our company to persue other goals, over the past Easter weekend when emotions are especially heightened and worse for my father I spent alot of time disconnected from life and juggling taking care of my own peace on top of looking for / dealing with my family stuff.

I guess during this time my ex coworker had attempted to reach out and was going through a low spell and was not in a great place, I finally reached out Monday when things got back to a manageable level.

But I guess it was too little too late for his case and he has since only responded with a snark and has kept me in the "silent treatment" zone for not "Being a good friend" even after I explained that Iv had my own things going on at the time.

AITAH? For not dropping everything I have going on for them?