I’ve been going on a few dates with this guy. And on the last one we were making out in his car. And the he asked if I wanted to have sex I said yes. So we were going to do it and we got naked and he obviously saw my (old) self harm scars on my arms and legs. We were still making out and he pulled away saying he can’t do this. I said ok and asked if I made him uncomfortable. He said he doesn’t appreciate being lied to. I asked him to elaborate. And he said “you didn’t tell me you had scars” I apologised and he said “If you want people to fuck you or date you maybe let them know what they’re getting themselves into. You didn’t even tell me you have mental problems that’s kinda important to know.”

He then told me it’s just awkward and asked me to leave so I did and got a taxi home.

Once I got home I saw he’s blocked me on everything. He did DM me on instagram tho before he blocked me saying “I’m sorry for saying the mental problems thing that was too far I just meant it was shitty of you to lead me on without getting the full picture”.

I get where he’s coming from and I feel like an awful person. Even though I haven’t self harmed in a while I guess I still need to let people know.

I guess I just don’t know how to bring it up.