I’m 34 and dying from colon cancer stage 4. In 2023 I had an emergency surgery and that’s when I was diagnosed with cc stage 3. My mother moved to my place to help me but things didn’t went too well.

She did her best to pay some bills and clean the house l. Any help from people I knew was welcomed. My neighbour was cooking for me a meal a day , my friend was trying to keep me out of the house , my long distance partner (now living together) was trying to entertain me . I was spending my time walking and playing video games when I wasn’t throwing up or sleeping.

My mother didn’t appreciate any of their kind actions and she will often tell me how all these people are fake . She will always remind me what she is doing for me and that she left her life for me and none of those people will do what she did for me.

A month ago I found out I have maybe 6 months to live without treatment and maybe 1-3 years with treatment. My partner moved to my place to help me and Be with me , my neighbour knows the situation but she is distant and my mother doesn’t know anything at all.

I feel like if I tell her she will make my life harder. And I know my family always called me selfish but right now I really want to be selfish .

I know she will blame my life choices, she will make it about herself, like why God is punishing her and never about how I feel.

I don’t want her to know yet so AITAH ?