My wife asked me when was the last time I masturbated to porn. I know for a fact she will guilt trip me any time I do so using the argument that I should be fooling around with her instead. So if I’m using porn it means am essentially mentally cheating. She also wants to know what I’m watching.

My argument is that I should be able to fly solo if and when I want, it’s not like we don’t ever fool around. We do. So I don’t see what the issue is.

So it’s not really an issue for me to tell when / if I do , I’m only doing so to avoid the silly argument.