I (28M) been friends with this girl (27F) since high-school. It started off with us dating but things kinda burnt out between us after one year because her parents would be strict about seeing each other. We stayed friends for a while. To be totally honest I've been hoping to try again dating.

When I got back from university kinda just got stuck in my hometown. We've always talked and hangout often. Got pretty close to dating her again but she ended up falling for someone in their 40s. Encouraged her to do what makes her happy so she got in a relationship with him. I was cool with it until that dude turned out to be an absolute POS. Ended with her getting an abortion which devastated her.

I was there for her for over a year to have someone to talk to. She told me she doesn't really have too many friends anymore. I never pressed the idea of dating during that time. After a while passed she told me when she's ready she'd like to try dating me/dating in general.

She seemed still pretty down in the dumps for a while and started to be distant. Ignoring my texts and not wanted to hangout. Her reasons were she doesn't have time or she's just going through it with work.

After a year of her being distant she texts me that she's getting married and having a baby. Kinda hit me at a bad time because I just handed in my two week notice at work because that place was burning me out and making me an angry person.

I congrated her and told her I'm happy for her but that felt like a punch in the gut to me. That conversation ended when I asked if that was the reason she never wanted to hang out and she said she just didn't want to do anything that would ruin the trust between them.

We haven't spoke since but I just don't want to. She might check in on me sometime but I just want to ignore her. Part of me is not cool with her not bringing it up sooner so I would at least know why. Other part of me knows it's because there likely no chance of us dating again