By Direct_Flamingo_7872 • Score: 2 • April 9, 2025 2:53 AM
Hi, English isn't my language, but I'll try to express myself well.
I'm 27F and have decided not to have children. My mother had problems during my brother's and my pregnancies, and with this history, I began to have some fear.
I recently received a preliminary diagnosis of a genetic disease. I haven't had genetic testing yet because of the high cost in my country. Doctors have told me I have muscle weakness and should avoid blows to my abdomen because I could bleed to death.
I've noticed that my blood doesn't clot normally. Even a simple cut takes time to clot, and I have to apply a cream to help it clot. I also had a fairly straightforward procedure that didn't take long to recover. I only had to be hospitalized for one day, but I ended up being hospitalized for two days because my blood wasn't recovering. I had mild anemia and wasn't getting better, so they gave me iron injections.
I've also been diagnosed with severe endometriosis and I am on treatment, but the medication's side effects bother me a bit. Sometimes I get hot at night and sweat a lot, but I've managed to cope.
My parents want grandchildren, but neither my brother nor I have any plans for children in the near future. We don't even have a partner. My brother has convinced them that he's looking to get married, but not yet. On the other hand, I've decided not to have children, not even a partner, because my family is one that settles when their partner is bad, and I don't like that. I don't even have friends and I'm not interested in being with anyone. I don't know why, but I'm not attracted to either men or women, which is why I feel asexual because I feel it's unnecessary.
I tend to be solitary and don't dress up. I'm currently unemployed, and I think that's affected me. I went to college, but I had an injury that took a long time to recover from (my healing is slow), and at my age, without experience, it's very complicated.
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