To start I want to say I love my boyfriend’s current friends. And I’m totally fine with staying with them.

HERES THE ISSUE.

My boyfriend is a gamer so he of course meets new people sometimes in games with his other current friends. That’s all fine. He and his current friends have been planning to do a trip in December and stay in an Airbnb for a couple days. He wants me to go. Which is sweet and fine. I’m comfortable with them. But he and his friends just met three new guys a few days ago and instantly brought up their future trip and kinda invited them.

This bothered me because I have told my boyfriend before that I’d like to meet people in person before spending a night with them. Especially someone you’ve only met online. And I 100% understand that when you’ve been talking to people online you begin to really feel like you know them. But sometimes that’s just sketchy.

Anyways, I told him if those three new guys end up coming I won’t be going on that trip. Because I’ve stated that I’d only be comfortable if we can meet them in person and spend a day with them. I don’t feel comfortable sleeping in an airbnb with three new guys right away. I feel like that’s a normal concern.

He got really mad and said I was just being controlling and that I wasn’t stating a boundary. He said me saying I just wasn’t going to go was mean. He said there shouldn’t be a concern with the fact that his three other friends that we know will be there to protect me as well. And that I’m just obsessed with being raped.

Am I the ass hole for stating that boundary? I really feel like sleeping in a house with three random new guys is still concerning. Am I being dramatic?