I (18f) have just recently had a baby with my bf (18m). My bf still lives at home with his mom and his sibling (24m) let’s just call him Jack. His brother Jack has been doing drugs (cannabis) since before me and my bf got together. It’s disgusting. Everytime I would go round to the house it was all I could smell. Literally everywhere in the house. When I fell pregnant my midwife even accused me of doing cannabis because she could smell it in the room when me and my bf walked in for one of our routine checkups and she even drug tested me. This was because the smell had stuck to my bfs clothes. There was so many times I had to just sit in my bfs room and couldn’t leave the whole time I was there because the smell would make me sick when I was pregnant. I would also like to mention he screamed at me when I was 7 months pregnant all because he was angry he didn’t have any drugs at hand. He is just all around a horrible person. Anyways, the whole pregnancy I was constantly bringing it to my bfs attention that I do not want to bring our baby to the house when there is drugs involved. My bf is really mad at me. For some reason my MIL has decided it is totally acceptable to bring my baby round to the house if he does the drugs in the back garden. This still doesn’t sound right to me knowing there will be drugs all over the house. I do not want to be that type of parent and go against all my morals. The reason my bf is mad is bc he wants his mom to see the baby. I understand that part but I just can’t get my head around the drugs thing. Am I overreacting? Is there anyway I could get around this.