I 13 Female and my besfriend (Gen )also 13 female, have been really close for years. like normal people we have ups and downs. 3 weeks ago Gen assumed i would be her patrner for an assignment, but another girl asked me first, from then on she didnt show up to school for 3 weeks. during those 3 weeks she ghosted me and told my other friend it was on pourpose, she only thinks of herself and called me the bitch for seeing if shes ok, as most people were away for the flu but me knowing that she has a weak immune system. last week she and my friend Lou (fake name for story (13F)) made up as gen had sent a rude message off my phone to Lou. Lou and i were fine as it was a voice message so she knew who it was from.

After Lou and Gen made up. Gen was jealous (her own words) when i would have a chat with Lou about something she wasnt around for, Gen would then make sure i felt left out, by starting new converations. on the way back from chapel, i politley told gen to step ahead as we had to walk in two straight lines as we were on our way back to school from the church (1km away from school) We were assigned buddies and mine was Lou. Gen stormed off mad and another week later sent me messages asking why i was mad because she wanted to make up. The conversations went like this

GEN: Hi, I don't want to interrupting your holidays. But I do want to hear your side of the friendship issue we have been having. (Copied and pasted so sorry for spelling mistakes)

Me:You haven't talked to me for 3+ weeks because I wasn't your partner

gen: I don't really care about partners. Sophie and I did really well. And your comments of your not walking with us go away was a bit hurtful.

Me: I never said go away i said you needed to step upfront of us as we had to walk in to line with our assigned buddies.

Gen: Okay well what I heard was your not walking with us im walking with Arianna. So i walked away because I felt like you were pushing me out of the group. WTF are you mad

me: You guys made up like a minute before, and when I started talking to Arianna, you would roll your eyes or start a new conversation.

Gen: And I started a new conversation because what you guys were talking about I had nothing Incommen

me: So you interrupted us. And couldn't wait for us to finish talking

gen: Well I could have done that. But instead I changed the subject so I wasn't left out

me: And left me out.......

Gen: uhhhhhh why does it matter. Just forget it, FUCK YOU

So am i the AITAH