For context, I’m 14M and I’ve just gotten out of the mental hospital after a few days. I’ve been in foster care most of my life because my dad has been an abusive alcoholic since I was like 6. I’ve had periods of living with him and he’s still been in contact when I’ve been in foster care but we haven’t spoken much this year. He did speak to me when my girlfriend was pregnant a few months ago to offer financial support but she had a miscarriage so now he has no reason to talk to me again. However, he contacted me saying that he was going to try to get sober (for like the 20th time?) and he wanted to meet up with me (my social worker lets him sometimes). I told him to fuck off and I didn’t wanna speak to him and I don’t care if he gets sober. My foster parents told me I should try to speak to him and my social worker is saying I was being ungrateful and at least he’s trying. Do you think I’m being an arsehole??