By Mountain_Pen3360 • Score: 3 • April 26, 2025 5:29 PM
Sorry if I come off as insensitive but recently my friend (Emily) has gone through a break up shes only 15 and it has been pissing me off lately. So one thing you should know is that Emily has had around 4 boyfriends this year basically one every month, all the guys she’s dated is 18 and I’ve warned her before dating them. The first one this year he kept asking her to have sex in his apartment and there was this one time where we were going out somewhere and suddenly she changed the location, I was already pissed because she just told me this when I was leaving and I didn’t want to go somewhere that is big, I wanted to go to like a small mall and just hang out, and she still invited her 1-2 weeks boyfriend, the bf asked her to uber to his house (this was the first time they were meeting since they met online) and she obliged and they both went together, I didn’t say anything because I didn’t want to ruin it, then 2 weeks later they broke up, she was like crying and reposting sad shit and I understood then and tried to comfort.
The second bf was just a short period, I didn’t know him at all and she met him online again. The third boyfriend is where things start getting bad, she met this boy online again and they started dating, it was the month of her birthday around February so she asked us to go out (us being 5 people) 2 of my friends couldn’t make it, me and this other friend were the only one that could go, she also said she would bring her boyfriend with her, we had no idea who was her boyfriend and we have never seen a pic of him, my other friend went and I said I was “sick” then after they went back home the friend that went with her told me that it’s dangerous to go out with her since she’s bringing someone we all didn’t know and that she didn’t think about that until her mother told her.
After like 3-4 days after her birthday they broke up, the reason they broke up was because the bf already had a gf and she was just a mistress, I was there to support her again, the reason she found out is because one of his friends texted her and they both broke up. She took 1-2 day to get over him and she dated her exes friend, the one who told her.
One day after school we were playing badminton and suddenly she asked me to go outside with her and she told me that her bf is coming and I’m actually like wtf because I knew nothing about him and I didn’t know how he looked like or like anything so i was kinda frustrated and didn’t say anything at all, when we saw him he started coming over to us and luckily he wasn’t some creep, they both talked awhile and like totally ignored me (not saying that it’s wrong but I just felt like wtf) and I just went back inside to play with someone else then like 30mins - 50mins later she came back and she tried to talk with me but I was lowk mad and I just gave her dry answers and kept playing with the other person. She kept inviting him over to play badminton with us which I didn’t mind but the way he was playing, me and her were a team and he just kept playing with her and barely threw the ball to me and I just stood there like?? and when he did hit the ball to me it was like a smash and I’m not that good so obviously I couldn’t do anything at all and I barely played, then when she was tired I played with him awhile and he just kept smashing and I’m seriously like wth, she and this boy kept going out together.
Then about 2-3 weeks ago they broke up because he was moving away to work and she told me it was a mutual breakup. But before this relationship even started me and 2 friends told her that she should take a break, the one who went out with Emily on her birthday and her ex told Emily that she’s basically switching boyfriends every month and Emily got mad but she didn’t say anything, then she said that the friend was pissing her off and she said that “atleast I can get a bf, I bet she’s just jealous” and like wtf? And they lowk had beef for awhile already.
And now onto the break up, she’s been reposting a lot of sad shit and like saying she wants to kms because of this boy “leaving her” and she’s making it seem like it’s all about her and she’s the victim, she says she wants to drink until she dies (she’s 15) and she wants to do drugs and get high. These kinds of things are the reasons why I’m resenting her, I know I’m supposed to support her during these kinds of situations but idk, she recorded herself crying and posted it on TikTok and like to me it seems like she’s seeking attention. And to add she has some expectation for the boys she’s dating like if they don’t have time to text her she’ll get mad and tell them “if u keep ignoring me then im going to break up” she needs them to like be with her 24/7 if not she wants to break up. This only started this year and only this year I started resenting her. Shes 15 only and has around 9 boyfriends.
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