📝 AITAH for saying no to my girlfriend and her getting mad and breaking up with me.

By reyinurdreams • Score: 3 • April 27, 2025 11:47 AM


first of all i just wanna clarify that english is not my first language so bare with me, I 21f and my girlfriend 20f were with a friend in a line full of people waiting, we were talking and the she mentioned my weird sleeping position, she took a picture of that, she asked if she can show it to the friend so i said no, she entered the picture and i kept saying no over and over at least 4 times then the last one i slightly screamed no and switched the picture, she did not like the fact that i screamed at her, so she got mad, i told her you crossed my boundary and you kept insisting for that, that's why i screamed no, she said that her boundary was not screaming, i said you did cross my boundary what would except my reaction to be after i said no multiple times yet you did not listen, my tone was a bit loud so she said to fix it, i did fix it then she started screaming 🙂 , i told her i will not talk to you until you fix your tone as well, she refused, then we went back to the dorm room, we sat for a bit and then we talked again, she brought alot of old fights back so i said i dont wanna hear about old fights i wanna solve this one, why did you not stop when i said no in the first place, are you that dumb, i know that you're not that dumb to do that so why, she replied i am that dumb, i am that dumb for being with you, i said break up with me then, so she did. please give me advice even tho i wanna mention that our relationship is not healthy and I want advice please, so AITAH? ---I just need to add this, I don't know if I should move out of the room and go back to my parents house knowing that she knows where they live and we live in a homophonic country so i am scared she would do something crazy because she is crazy and she would do anything.

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