AITAH for asking my gf to speak to me at 1 o'clock her saying that she is going to watch Netflix and me understanding that this is what she wants in that moment then I went to go watch Netflix too whilst giving her that respect and space and time before trying to speak to her again and when I tried to call her she declined and said I'm otp to a friend(that she fell out with at the start of the relationship and said not rn once again and I wasn't understanding of the fact of not rn considering we hadn't spoken for a considerable while and while I tried to call her I found out she was on the phone to her friend which she gave me no respect of saying it was important and that she couldn't speak to me in that moment all she said was I'm sorry but later in the conversation she told me I'm speaking to my friend and it's important(since she was fixing things with her friend as they had fell out but took three hours which meant that we hadn't spoken for 6 hours didn't try and be considerate at the fact that I had been trying to speak to her since 1 and I do acknowledge the fact that it was wrong for me to continue spamming her after she told me that she was fixing things with her friend and showing up at her house uninvited and came to her house first but was in the area because my friend lives near by she told me that