📝 AITAH for Starting an Onlyfans even though I knew my Family wouldn't approve?

By SlimHeylie • Score: 22 • April 7, 2025 4:02 PM


Sooo.. I'm (21F), full time student and living on my own. Between rent, university, and just trying to survive, I was constantly stressed about Money. A few months ago, I Started OnlyFans, nothing explicit mostly lingerie, teasing. I'm super careful, and honestly it's been life changing. I finally have breathing room financially.

But here's the thing my family is very conservative and religious. I knew they wouldn't approve which is why I didn't tell them. I wasn't trying to be sneaky I just didn't want to invite the judgement. I've never asked them for help, and I'm taking care of myself.

Well... word got around. Someone found out apparently and told me mom. Now it's a whole family scandal. I've been called everything from lost to **utty to disrespectful. My mom told me I'm embarrassing the family. My uncle said I'm throwing away my dignity for cash.

I tried explaining that I'm not doing anything to be ashamed of and I'm being safe and smart about it but they don't care. To them I've sold my soul for likes and money.

I know I probably confirmed their worst assumptions by not telling them but, I also feel like... This is my life. I'm not hurting anyone. I'm not asking them to support me.

So... AITAH for doing it anyway, knowing they'll hate it

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