one news years my best friend (bo) was hanging out with 2 of my other friends (aa and ac) all 3 of them are women, aa is bisexual and aa has previously been attracted to bo but never acted on it, on new years bo aa and ac all got drunk, aa and bo kissed, i wasnt there so i dont know what happened really but i had been told aa’s side of the story and it seems mostly like she was drunk kissed bo multiple times and then regreted it and she immediately blamed bo and said she sexually assaulted her, but bo had a completely different story, aa said bo kissed her and was chasing her around the house when bo said aa kissed her and that she never chased her around the house. and i wasnt told both sides of the story and aa told me since i wanst there she doesn’t care if me and bo are still friends. i have been friends with both bo and aa for almost my entire life and trust them so much, obviously one of them is lying but me trusting neither of them would lie to me had no idea what to do who to trust and just stayed friends with both of them. at the time my anxiety had been getting pretty bad i wasn’t talking to any of my friends except bo and another friend because they would text me first most of the time so i never distanced from them, but with aa and ac neither of them attemted to talk to me for a month and i admit it was bad of me not to talk to her when she was going through that but i was also going through a lot at the time, she never tried to talk to me, i after 2-3 weeks reached out to her and ac to see how they were doing, talked to them a little and then 2 days later aa told me she missed bo and wanted to be friends with her again and asked me to make a group chat with her in so she could talk to her since bo had blocked her, so i did since i was on call with bo at the time and she said to do it. and she talked a bit in the gc and the new years situation was not mentioned once only bo being back with her ex and aa ended up saying to bo ‘i hope you and (her ex) both burn in hell’ and then left, a few days passed it was the day before my birthday and me and bo were out, i posted a picture on my story of me and bo and aa screenshotted it, so i asked her about it and she said it was an accident and i jokingly said ‘sure’ she all of a suddenly got all mad at me and started trying to argue with me about how i didnt talk to her in a month and about me still being friends with bo. i dont think i did anything wrong other than not talking to her but i had my own reasons and she didn’t attempt to talk to me either.