I was with my kids dad briefly we had 2 kids I realised after the second he had a full on secret life and family. I feel bad now tho as he turned to heavy drugs and blames me for not being there and raising my family alone. He doesn’t pay left me for someone else and was heavy on heroin. He thinks I’m an ass hole for bringing his drug addiction up but to me it’s a valid point. I raised the children alone. I used to love to party when I had my first kid he uses that against me all the time. I’d just drink on a Friday tho he literally stole from us lord to us and I’m the prick for bringing this up. He’s clean now but even clean he’s a deadbeat he refuses to pay and doesn’t turn up for them