All names included are fake, obviously.

For context, I (19F) live with 3 other people in a college apartment with 4 bedrooms and 2 bathrooms. Each bathroom is used by two of us, and it’s always the same one, or rather, we never switch bathrooms. I share a bathroom with Mary, and the other one is used by Alisson and Monica. Each bathroom buys their own tp.

As for the actual story, a couple days ago I realized that mine and Mary’s bathroom was almost running out of tp, and since it was my turn to buy it, I planned on going to the grocery store as soon as I could. If this was a normal week, I would’ve just done my groceries on that same day. However, this was my final classes week right before my final exam week, meaning I had no time to do so.

With that said, I thought that the toilet paper we had might last us maybe two more days. Well, I was wrong. One day I went in and it had been used up entirely, so I went to ask one of my other roommates, Monica, for more. She said yes right away and gave me a roll, which I am obviously grateful for.

Another day passes and I still cannot go grocery shopping because of all my schoolwork and studies. Somehow, we ran out of toilet paper again one day later, despite me trying to conserve it as much as possible. I honestly would’ve been fine with using napkins or whatever at that point, but since Mary would have to do that too, I just went to ask for another roll.

When I ask Monica for another roll, she agrees right away once again. While we were talking though, I notice that my fourth roommate’s bedroom door, Alisson, was slightly ajar. I didn’t think much of it because honestly I was almost shitting my pants at that point lmao

About 15 minutes go by, and Alisson sends a message on the group chat that all 4 roommates share: “Hey if ur out of toilet paper please go buy ur own and stop taking ours, especially the last roll and now without asking the one who bought it “

Alisson has this habit of overhearing me and Monica’s conversations whenever she has the chance and always butting in. The thing is that she sent it on the GROUP chat, not just me. It’s like she wanted everyone to turn against me or something. Because of this, I didn’t reply.

I talked to Monica about the message and apparently the first time that I took tp, it was the last roll (which she had bought, and she only noticed it was the last after she gave it to me). Because of this, they had to use napkins for a day as soon as their own tp ran out, and Alisson had to go buy more (which isn’t as big of an issue because her classes were over already). I felt awful for Monica but didn’t appreciate Alisson framing it as if I constantly steal toilet paper from them without telling anybody. The last time I asked for toilet paper from them was months ago.

Alisson is someone who is always asking the rest of the roommates for alcohol, snacks or whatever we eat in front of her, so I was a bit surprised by her reaction to the toilet paper. I was planning on replacing the rolls I used from the start, but Alisson’s attitude over such a trivial thing made me reconsider that. She also offers her boyfriend stuff in the kitchen that we bought, which I think is a pretty similar situation.

On the other hand, I would be pretty pissed too if someone took my last roll of toilet paper without telling me, so it makes me feel bad for making them use napkins. If I knew, I would’ve probably given them back the rest of the roll and used napkins for Mary and myself.

Right now Monica is on my side but Alisson and Mary are probably conspiring hard against me, so I’m not sure if I’m right or wrong. AITAH? How do I deal with the situation?

If you’re Alisson reading this, then man, I am so tired of dealing with your bullshit. Please, if you have something to say to me, just tell me in person instead of overhearing and sending it in the GROUP CHAT. If you ever asked me, I would’ve always given you as much tp as you needed. You’ve disrespected me ever since we met, and just because I don’t complain, it doesn’t mean you can treat me however you like. Please grow up. (I am sorry about taking the last roll though, that was bad.)

(Sorry for the long post. I wanted to make sure I didn’t leave anything out.)