I, 25, male, and my boyfriend, 23, male, have been together for three years. I've been about 100 pounds overweight the entire time we've been together. I recently decided I want to get my health in order and lose the weight. I told my boyfriend this, expecting him to support my goal, but instead he said, "Why? You're already hot the way you are." I said, "That may be true, but I'm also 100 pounds overweight, so losing weight is going to happen. He replied, "Well I think you're sexy the way you are and shouldn't lose weight." I said, "Well not everything is about you and I need to prioritize my health." He said, "Ok" and has been acting distant since. My friends are split, some think I'm in the right, but others think I need to take his opinion into account because he's the one who has to look at me while we have sex. Am I the asshole here?