📝 AITAH for telling my friend to break up with "love of his life".

By Pristine_Ad276 • Score: 1 • April 18, 2025 7:53 PM


So my friend [18 M] started dating this girl who liked him for a long time but he didn't like her back because of his issues with his last relationship.

Recently they started dating and in the beginning they were very close.They spent a lot of time talking to each other on phone as they don't live close to each other.My friend started ignoring us too but that part didn't bother us.Soon my friend started sending me screenshots of their conversation where she called him by wrong name to imply that she also dating some other man.

He was cheated in his previous relationship and was obviously sad and asked for my advice.I told him to tell her what you think clearly so she knows that it hurt you but when he did this she became furious and acted as if it was his fault for not taking it as a joke.He at the end apologized.

Now its been a month and she suddenly blocked him from instagram and started talking only on snapchat.He didn't knew why she did so and also didn't dare to ask her that.She went to travel after a few days and told him she won't contact him till she comes back.She used to send him her pictures but when he complimented her she ignored him.Whenever he told her i love you and all that she ignored him.

When she returned she broke up with him because She wasn't feeling secure or valued in their relationship and she didn't feel that spark even though i have seen my friend give all his time and attention to her.He was very much willing to change but she wasn't.She also started following her ex but she still talks to my friend as if nothing happened.

When my friend told me all this told him to just block her and never contact her.She was very emotionally immature and wanted him to fulfill all her emotional demands which cannot be done by a man alone.She needed to work on herself too and also let him do the same.My friend is still in shock and confusion and obviously not well after all this.But he is still not willing to let her go.

And I low-key know it's his fault because he gets too attached to anyone and especially when he is dating someone.He declares them as "love of his life" even though they are in talking stage.Now I really don't know how to help my friend.

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