Sorry it'll be a little bit long

Im 20F n she's a 22F. We met 3 years ago in college it was our first year. At first we weren't friends I just knew her because we attended the same cc class n she was a friend of a person we are village neighbors. So my friend whom we'll call Anna n her friend had I fight (it's a story for another day) n since then Anna started hanging out with me n my group of friends.

Anna has a lot of issues. She didn't enjoy her childhood or school years n she doesn't have that kind of a relationship with her Mom their relationship is actually toxic n she's a first born, so you know what first born go through. I'm just giving you a background of her. We speak the same language and we both are christians those are things that made us click.

Im the second born child bit a first born daughter. So we related in a lot of things. And everything was fine we became good friends n studied together most of the time n everything was fine until it wasn't. She met this guy whom we'll call Nate. So Nate liked Anna so much and she said she was in an no dating error n this guy knew. Bit the guy is manipulative n very good with words. And me and Nate didn't get along at all. So I realized that my friend Anna used to break her promises of studying together after classes to go n talk to Nate for hrs n I'll be left alon. Everytime I try to talk about it n it seemed like I was jealous.

It continued until I couldn't anymore I just use to get angry n not talk to Anna but the following day I would apologize n talk about it but it didn't change. Until the end of the year Nate n Anna decided to go their separate ways . I thought she would just relax n get over Nate. And to be clear I'm not dating the least time I dated i was seventeen n it ended with the worst heart break so I decided to focus on myself n heal even now I've no even thought of dating again. So this is the end of our first year after separation with Nate she starts crushing on this guy Tom. And I tell her a person never dates their crush it'll end in tears but Anna doesn't listen.

Tom and Anna started the talking phase n she wanted to prove something to me. The second year starting they are still talking but guess what, the guy dumps her at week of Valentine's. And even with Tom i don't get along with him n they use to leave me alone n go n talk for hrs until i call n say I'm going home. And to be specific we both travel to school everyday. So I was there through the break up n I didn't complain at all. And the second trimester Tom comes back to school n also Nate comes back. And she promises me she won't go back to either of the guy but she goes back to Nate n the same shit happens.The third trimester starts n she goes back to Tom n things between Anna n Tom are getting better but I start feeling left out. And she starts lying to me. One day she was at the same town as our school and she told me sje wasn't able to make it n I was oukyy With it only for her to tell me the next day I was at Tom's place. I don't know if I'm supposed to feel like this but I felt betrayed to be honest. I'm that person that hates lie's tell me the truth even if it hurts I'll accept it.

And from that day something just changed I felt like I was stopping or controlling her from doing what she loves.. so Tom and Annas relationship didn't last through the holidays it ended. This year January she tells me n I'm like supportive. I'm very punctual when It comes to time n she's not so I use to call her in the morning just to see if she won't be late . But she told me that my calls annoy her n I stopped. The other time I remember crying at school and I was not able to control my emotions they were all over the place n she didn't even ask what's up. Most of the time she choose her boyfriend over me n I wasn't offended by that but I felt like I was not fought for or stood up for enough.

Most of the time she calls me crying n i help her with all of her problems n I don't mind she's my friend but when it comes to me I feel like she just doesn't care or something. Sometimes I meet my former high school mates and I introduce her but if it is her she'll leave me standing like I'm lost. One time she mad a statement that i should buy a Jean jacket and stop wearing a a sweater jacket even when it hots n I was offended n I just kept myself. When I do something she'll offend me n when I do the same unintentionally I Have to apologize

If you need more back story let me know

But what should I do in this case or should I just end the friendship or we can still work on it help