i work for a small store, there's 3 of us there. manager, me, and another coworker.

yesterday one of our machine stopped working while i was using it. i tried to explain beforehand to my manager that i think something isn't right (maybe i should have explained my suspicions more clearly), he told me it wasn't a problem to continue using it and then he left. so i tried using it and fixing it as best as i could.

he comes back and saw that the problem is worse than before and i tried explaining to him that's what i was trying to say. he got mad at me and told me i should have seen that it was a bigger problem and let him know more clearly. i got upset and said he should have just listen to me from the very beginning, then i wouldnt have tried fixing it myself.

i went in a corner myself and my manager and the other coworker ignored me and went to the machine trying to sort it out. i overheard them talking and jumped in to try defend myself again and my manager said "this is why we dont like talking to you, you keep blowing things out of proportion" and went on about my mood swings

i have bpd, depression, anxiety, (self diagnosed) autism. i know i'm a lot to accommodate (they do their best and i'm grateful for that) and my my interpersonal skills aren't the greatest but i felt horrible that he would allude to my mental state. was i in the wrong? AITAH for trying to defend myself?