So my wife said her stepdad accidentally “sexually assaulted” her when she was a teenager in her sleep. He was drunk and stumbled into the wrong room. Well we have a daughter and she wants her to stay the night with him and her mother. I am uncomfortable with this. Our daughter is still a child but from the small knowledge I have, perpetrators have their target age and I don’t want this to be a time he is grooming my daughter who isn’t even ten yet. How would you handle this as a husband?