AITAH for having my boyfriend over multiple nights a week even though my roommate says he can only come on weekends?

I (20F) have been dating my boyfriend for about 2 months, and we’ve started having regular sleepovers. I have my own room in our house, and we’re always respectful—mostly stay in my room, clean up after ourselves, and keep things quiet (we even move to the floor during sex so the bed doesn’t make noise). She told me we sometimes talk loudly, and I said I’d stop that or move to the living room and keep it low. She also goes to bed at 9pm, usually I get off work at 8:00 so it’s just kinda weird schedule wise. I think park of the problem is I’m spending less time with her as we’re close friends, but I also want to make this bf thing work and now am a bit stressed that this will impact our relationship.

The issue is, my roommate told me, my soon to be boyfriend is only allowed to come over on weekends. I work throughout the week, and my schedule doesn’t always allow for that. Sometimes my bf doesn’t come over at all for several days, and other times he might stay over 3–4 nights depending on our schedules. I explained this and said I’m happy to compromise, but limiting me to just weekends feels unrealistic.

I also spoke to our other roommate (who has a bf over all the time), and she thinks it’s an overstep. She’s never been told anything about her boyfriend being over, even though he’s around more than mine. The double standard bothers me, but honestly, that’s not even the core issue. I just don’t really understand where this is coming from or how to handle it. I love my friend and don’t want this to ruin things, but I also don’t think it’s fair for her to set such strict limits on how I spend time with my boyfriend in my own room.

AITAH?