I’m a female (35) and my husband is (36) we have been married for 4 years and throughout our marriage my husband has constantly disrespected me by texting other women and sending nudes. In the 4 years we have been together I have NEVER spent a summer with him because he has always left me at home for months at a time. I’ve done through disrespect from his family and friends and I’m always told I’m tripping because he straighten that. My husband can’t even pay a phone bill for $10. He can’t help with bills because he doesn’t have a job. He has never really done anything meaningful for me. The last time he disappeared he claimed he had Covid and almost died. When I asked him to take me to the hospital and let me see the paperwork from him being there, he got upset and didn’t do it. He swear he has never cheated physically but I don’t believe that at all. When I mentioned I was moving by myself he told me that I was wrong for leaving him behind.

So AITAH for wanting to leave my husband?