📝 AITAH - I like my friend girlfriend

By nox_1986 • Score: 3 • April 23, 2025 10:56 PM


So, let me explain. One of my best friends, got together with this girl (they're both girls) my friend is a lesbian and her parents is bi. My first let's call her Emily (not a real name) started talking about her around Christmas, and as a good friend I gave her advice and have spent night hearing her talking no stop about noel (not real name). But after 3 months of this torture I decided to take the matters into my own hands, I went to Noel's Instagram and I told her everything, and she liked her back (I already knew cause we have a Acquaintance in common), and after some days they went on a date and got together soon after. Now a month and an half as pasted and... They're horrible together, they're both really shy so the most they did is one single hug, and they went on just two dates, now I know everyone has their time, but even in personality side, noel joined our discord server (it's me Emily and Noel and some other and our dearest friends) and during the calls they just can't get along, in every discussion they never Agree, so I talked to summer (all the names are fakes) and we agreed, the just aren't a good match. But coming to the juice part, I started developing feeling for noel, she's funny, smart, she's interesting, and when we hang out together we're always making fun of each other (in a playful way) and she even got me back in Jojo, and we had an hour lasting Conversation just about the art style, and coming form summer we got perfect matching personality, I'm more out going and I'm not shy at all, and I help her being herself. (I'm guy btw) I know is an asshole move but I've ever had a more genuine love in my life, and the fact that they aren't gonna last long didn't help, but even if and when they'll break up I'd still feel bed even asking her out. I'd like some advice but I just wanted to share my story, so thanks for reading

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