Okay so throw away account as I do not want my other profile linking me & also this is a LONG ONE.

So I started seeing my now ex FWB last year (Feb 2024). Things were going well, super supportive to eachother - we didn't just have sex we were actually good friends with great sex.

So end of March I have been trying to see him and sometimes our schedules just don't jive for a few weeks (2-3 at most) - I get a text message talking about something random ( he ran into mutual people we both know) then he texted "I'm no longer single btw".

I was stunned not only by what he sent but how he just dropped that on me like that. He and I had several discussions regarding if he or I ended up starting to date others that we would let one another know. I was so upset at the lack of balls - to text someone who you have been with for over a year that - I was beyond pissed at the total lack of integrity ( Thats something that you have a face to face conversation about or at minimum a phone call - not a text at 145am)

So, 2 weeks ago I was feeling like crap, headache, really sore boobs and nauseous. I text him at 845am that I was feeling like this and that I thought it was PMS but looking at my period calendar- I was late. I said I was going to get pregnancy tests. NOT A PEEP FROM HIM.

12 hours later I followed up that text with telling him that I took 2 pregnancy tests and that both were positive. NOT A WORD IN RESPONSE.

Saturday, Sunday and Monday I got a text saying he'd call me the next day, then nothing. This happened 3 times. I made an appointment for Tuesday last week to go confirm that I am pregnant and to get the abortion pills (unsure if I would actually take them but I wanted to have my options available to me) and I tried to call him to see if I could park at his place (down the street from my appointment). That's when I realized that he blocked me.

I went through hell to inform him, give him space, not overwhelming him or over contacting him. And he blocks me. Well that made me go a little crazy ( not proud but honest) I tried calling through FB and what's app since I was livid af. Finally got some pathetic response that he was busy driving to pick up friends at the airport ( again brushing me off). When my appointment was done and I was confirmed to be 7 weeks and 4 days pregnant. I sent him that as well as the prescription I was given to go and fill at the pharmacy as "proof".

He eventually decided to call me - I think it was a day or 2 later. Said he had no clue that I texted him about thinking I might be pregnant or that I had two positive pregnancy tests. I told him I didn't believe him but eventually just let it go to try and talk about the pregnancy and not dwell on the last 6 days of hell he had put me through.

I told him that I have the pills but that I didn't know what I wanted to do (which is the most honest answer I could give) I didn't lie or tell him what he wanted to hear. I told him that he and I need to talk about this - and I honestly believed him that he would be an adult and have a discussion with me. That still to this day (2 plus weeks later) has not happened.

So here we are to the AITAH- I told him that I have waited long enough and that I gave him every opportunity to talk about this between us ( I haven't involved anyone else since I truly felt like he and I needed to talk and not have outside influences involved in something that only involves he and I) I wanted to pick up my belongings that are very important to me - I have tried every day this long weekend and all I've gotten is "tomorrow is better". I told him that I have my own life and my own things that are important and that I'm not starting yet another week with this BS. I just want my stuff. He said he wasn't home but tonight I went there after my dinner plans ( he said he wasn't home 2-3 hours prior to my dinner ending) I texted that I was on my way there now and gave him the opportunity to provide a different time but you guessed it - didn't respond. So I went there - and low and behold he's not only home but he's there with his new gf. I tried calling him. No answer. I texted that I just want my stuff and that I would knock on the door. No response. Well I had one of the two pregnancy tests that I took and decided that I have had enough. So instead of knocking on the door. I took the pregnancy test and put it on the hood of his truck. I guess this might even be something for r/PettyRevenge as I write all of this out.

I want to know AITAH for leaving the pregnancy test on his truck for him to find whenever he decides to go somewhere?