Hi, new to Reddit here, so bear with me. I (48F) have a friend, K (48F) I have known for 10 years. We"ve helped each other through a lot and I thought we were good. K has always been one to fall in and out of depression and I too have had my moments. To break the monotony and the last bad period for us both, we decided to go away for a few days. We've beenon vacation before, so I know what we're getting into. Or so I thought. This year, it was worse than before. I had to do everything. Booked the tickets, the hotel, everything else. So far, she has shown zero interest, telling me she's tired and drained. Work, family, pets, health...everything is stressing her out. And if I'm honest, I'm getting fed up. It's not like my life is allsunshine and rainbows. We're leaving in four weeks and instead of looking forward to it, I'm dreading it. I'm starting to think she doesn't want to go. But I need this vacation so much. So...WIBTA if I go, even if she's not coming along?